CONVERSATION STARTER GUIDE

Part 1: Talking to Your Kids

The Goal: Focus on what they are GAINING (freedom, sleep, fun), not just what they are losing.

The "Big Announcement" Script:

"We’ve made a big decision for our house because we love you and want you to have the best childhood possible. We’re joining a whole community of parents who are waiting on smartphones and social media. This means more time for [their favorite hobby], more sleep, and more adventures with your friends in person."

How to handle the "But I'll be the only one!" cry:

Validate: "I hear you. It’s really hard to feel like you're missing out."

The Pivot: "That’s why we took the pledge. You aren't the only one. [Name of friend] and [Name of friend]’s parents are doing this too. We are building a group that hangs out for real."

Part 2: Talking to Other Parents

The Goal: To recruit allies. This is a coordination problem; the more parents join, the easier it gets.

The "Playdate" Script:

"Hey! I'm really concerned about how much phones are changing childhood. We’ve decided to take “the pledge” and wait on smartphones and social media. I’m telling you because I’d love for our kids to be able to grow up together without being glued to screens. Would you ever consider looking at the pledge with me?"

Part 3: The "Wait, What Do We Do Now?"

When the screens go away, 'Boredom' arrives. Remind them that boredom is the doorway to creativity.

Check out Let Grow for inspiration for encouraging your kids to have more independent play and responsibility in the real world.

You are not alone. This movement is growing in our community as well as worldwide! We’re excited to be doing this with your family